What happens when we listen to another?
When we listen, we offer with our attention an opportunity for wholeness.
Our listening creates a sanctuary for the homeless parts within the other person.
That which has been denied, unloved, devalued by themselves and by others.
That which is hidden.
In this culture, the soul and the heart too often go homeless.
Listening creates a holy silence.
When you listen generously to people they can hear the truth in themselves, often for the first time.
And in the silence of listening, you can know yourself in everyone.
Eventually, you may be able to hear, in everyone and beyond everyone, the unseen singing softly to itself and to you.
Rachel Naomi Remen
Could YOU use a good listening to?
Twice each month, I host a Virtual Changes gathering (by phone), that offers simply this – an opportunity to both listen and be listened to. There’s never a fee.
You can get more information and a list of scheduled gatherings here.
I look forward to having you join us AND to listening!
Carole S says
Just reading this I feel nurtured. Thanks for helping me to take a few moments to remember this important dynamic. C.
Mary Elaine Kiener says
Thanks, Carole. I hope you’ll consider joining us for one of our upcoming Virtual Changes gatherings!